Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Understood

It feels so good to be understood. I have not been having the easiest of times lately and I vented to a friend earlier today about a couple issues and when he answered this evening it was so wonderful because he totally understood. Being understood by another human being is such a gift. It is like being wrapped in an intellectual hug. So often I feel alone and in understanding me, he gave me that moment when I felt less desolate.

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  1. Sorry to hear you are having such tough times. Good to hear you were 'hugged' today in all the best ways. Someone really listening and 'getting' you is indeed a gift in itself.

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  2. Hi DC. Welcome to my blog. Thanks for commenting.

    I have no one to blame for my tough times except myself. I trusted someone I should not have and I got burned. I'd say live and learn, but that apparently doesn't work for me because this is not the first time this particular person has hurt me.

    However, I am incredibly lucky to have my understanding friend. He is the shoulder I cry on. He is always there to cheer me on when things seem too much to handle. But last night he was just so insightful that I was overwhelmed and felt the need to post about it.

    Goddess H.

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